Random Q & A

Among all the “Random Questions”, this makes the most sense. So I decided to do it.

Not a lot of people know this but I'm very good at...
Nutrition! I can tell which Vitamin, supplement, food, or fruit is good for which part of your body. Since I get sick a lot, I learn all those stuff by myself!

The most romantic thing anyone's ever done for me is...
Getting a surprise kiss when I turn around to him whilst at a firework show in Disneyland. Not that romantic huh…

You may not know it but I'm no good at...
Knitting or Manicures. Yes I feel ashamed when every of my girl friend busying at knitting around Valentine’s Day while I have no clue how to do it at all. And I just suck at manicure…

To wake myself up I...
Need Joey’s 零時零分.

When I'm feeling down I...
Tend to be self-autistic. Just don’t want to talk to anyone.

My "happy place" is...
Any warm and cozy place I get to eat, hang around and chat with my loved ones where everybody is happy and relaxed.

My best friend is...
You guys…you know who you are.

If I can, I always try to avoid...
Spicy food, food that makes me fat or my voice bad, animals, flirting of all kinds, falling down, and dropping food and eating utensils.

The best thing my parents taught me...
Not to trust them!?

It's not good for my image but I like...
The wet and frizzy hair, glasses, masks, and PJ look after shower, especially in front of my boyfriends but without the mask part. I didn’t realize it’s that inappropriate or ugly until my girl friends and I talked about this recently. I guess I am so used to living with guys.

My greatest weakness is...
Impatience, easily affected by small things…

If I could pass any law it would be...
Stop lying and stop cheating on anyone.

I drive...
Hell yeah I am a legal driver!

When I was a child I wanted to be...
A teacher (like what every other girl wanted to be).

The shop I can't walk past without buying something is...
Park’n Shop?

The most expensive thing I've ever frittered money on...
Stocks!

I always laugh at...
Basically everything!

At the moment I am reading...
“生命中不能承受之輕” by 米蘭. 昆德拉(Milan Kundera).
And re-reading “He’s just not that into you” by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo.

The last film I saw was...
“Slumdog Millionaire”. I don’t like it but I think the kids are cute.

The best day of my life…
Is when I’m in love.

My last meal would be...
Miso Ramen made by myself!

My Valentine

This is especially for you.
I won't clarify anything on xanga because I don't need to justify my love, and because of the fact that I love you far more than you might have thought of.

My Valentine
By Martina McBride

If there were no words, no way to speak
I would still hear you
If there were no tears, no way to feel inside
I'd still feel for you

And even if the sun refused to shine
Even if romance ran out of rhyme
You would still have my heart until the end of time
You're all I need, my love, my valentine

All of my life
I have been waiting for all you give to me
You've opened my eyes, and shown me how to love unselfishly

I've dreamed of this a thousand times before
In my dreams I couldn't love you more
I will give you my heart until the end of time
You're all I need my love my valentine

(La la la la la la la)

And even if the sun refused to shine
Even if romance ran out of rhyme
You would still have my heart until the end of time
Cause all I need is you my valentine
Oh, you're all I need my love my valentine

We are Official!

He asked. I said Yes.

It’s absolutely a big step to our relationship. We are now officially together keke, but I think that our first day should be June 3rd, 2008.

The story goes from the moment I got back to NY this morning. On the phone, he said that Yuk Je gave him a ten-minute lecture on why he has to date me. Yuk Je and I met at the bakery yesterday; she is a good friend of his mother. At the point he was wondering why everyone expressed his/her natural affection to me at first sight AND insisted that we should be together, he suddenly asked “Will you marry me? I would like to take care of you for the rest of my life.”

Stunned and wordless, I was smiling pretty big in my heart. That’s so sweet, truthfully and incredibly sweet that I wanted to say yes right away. I did not expect to hear this sweetest thingie on earth in a couple of years, or even my lifetime. That moment I realized I am in love. But the silly me was still hesitating.

"Ummm…Are you thinking about this all the time? I will give you a chance to rephrase. Are you sure you want to do that?”

“With you? Yes, but of course not now. I am not going to separate with you.”

“…You are lying.”

He called again after my 3:00 p.m. news headlines. I could tell from the beginning that he was prepared for the conversation. We talked about our deep down feelings, and most importantly the issues of trust and flirting. I don’t know if he is the kind of guy who likes flirting and fooling around. I don’t know whether I want to start a relationship before I leave. I don’t know whether I want to do something that I have been avoiding. We have once compromised that we would do dating and NOT a relationship. He once said that he wanted me to be his girlfriend if and only if I considered to stay here. He once promised my best friend that he would not do anything further even if he likes me… I am confused. Isn’t it better when we just stay friends?

He then said with confidence, “This time I’m serious…Be My Girlfriend.”

Instead of evading like the last five times, I asked why.

“Because I love you. I want you to trust me that I love you…a lot. Will you be my girlfriend?” That melted me and I knew that my heart belongs to just him.

I delightfully said “Yes!!!” I wish he was here to see how red my face was and how blissful my smile was! "I Love You Too! And I miss you very much!"